Which sex do you prefer? relationship or hooking up

Doofy · Post by **Doofy** » February 10, 2005, 4:14 pm

Would you rather have sex with someone you care for or someone you just met at a party? Im gonna have to go with relationship

Asheran Mojomaster · February 10, 2005, 4:20 pm

Relationship.

Winnow · Post by **Winnow** » February 10, 2005, 4:30 pm

O.P.P

yeah you know me

Adelrune Argenti · Post by **Adelrune Argenti** » February 10, 2005, 4:41 pm

Wouldn't this poll kind of fall in the "duh" category? I think it is pretty obvious that the majority of people are going to want a lasting relationship.

masteen · Post by **masteen** » February 10, 2005, 5:03 pm

Anything over 3 weeks fucks with my sanity. I'm too much of a selfish prick for all that sharing and caring bullshit

Rivera Bladestrike · February 10, 2005, 5:04 pm

Adelrune Argenti wrote:Wouldn't this poll kind of fall in the "duh" category? I think it is pretty obvious that the majority of people are going to want a lasting relationship.

What he said

Adelrune Argenti · Post by **Adelrune Argenti** » February 10, 2005, 5:13 pm

masteen wrote:Anything over 3 weeks fucks with my sanity. I'm too much of a selfish prick for all that sharing and caring bullshit

Masteen, you are what is known as a statistical anomoly.

Chidoro · Post by **Chidoro** » February 10, 2005, 5:19 pm

Heh, be with the same person for awhile

masteen · Post by **masteen** » February 10, 2005, 5:35 pm

Chidoro wrote:Heh, be with the same person for awhile

Honestly, why? I just didn't see the payoff for what I had to give up. Marriage and kids? Don't even go there.

Chidoro · Post by **Chidoro** » February 10, 2005, 5:45 pm

masteen wrote:
Chidoro wrote:Heh, be with the same person for awhile
Honestly, why? I just didn't see the payoff for what I had to give up. Marriage and kids? Don't even go there.

That's my point.

I chose curtain number 1 and I'm not afraid to admit it!

well, at least it's because my wife doesn't read this crap

Ransure · Post by **Ransure** » February 10, 2005, 5:45 pm

Ive been in a few long term relationships... almost got engaged last time... For where I am in my life right now... All Im looking for is some short term companionship... and that has worked out pretty well for me

Maybe sometime in the next few years Ill meet that "right" one again... but for now... Im happy where Im at.

Chidoro · Post by **Chidoro** » February 10, 2005, 5:46 pm

My MARGINS!

Winnow · Post by **Winnow** » February 10, 2005, 8:13 pm

my bandwidth! that's half a meg+!!!1111!1

Kithyen · Post by **Kithyen** » February 10, 2005, 8:18 pm

I'm more for hooking up one night stands. But if the girl lets me punch her in the face repeatedly during orgasm, she's a keeper.

Ransure · Post by **Ransure** » February 10, 2005, 11:12 pm

I checked before putting that up... it wasnt as wide as Winnow's

so screw your margins!!!!!

Heh, didnt think to look and see how big it was

Tinkin Tankem · Post by **Tinkin Tankem** » February 11, 2005, 1:44 am

I checked the "sex is better in a relationship". However I'd only say that's true if you really care about the person. I've been in relationships where I'm just in it for the sex and to me that's as good as a one nighter. However it was when I was in a relationship with a person that I really cared about that gave me a whole new outlook on sex. The idea of sex from just getting yours to recieving the satisfaction that another gets is so much more intense when you connect with the person.

Siji · Post by **Siji** » February 11, 2005, 2:00 am

masteen wrote:
Chidoro wrote:Heh, be with the same person for awhile
Honestly, why? I just didn't see the payoff for what I had to give up. Marriage and kids? Don't even go there.

Safety. There's a lot of shit out there that I'd prefer not going home with. The gifts the keep on giving can give elsewhere thanks. Also take into account that women (mostly) are more likely to experiement more with someone they're comfortable with and trust; not a one night stand.

Zaelath · Post by **Zaelath** » February 11, 2005, 7:45 am

I call bullshit! A freak is a freak, and a chick that doesn't even give head isn't going to warm up to you and start jungle fucking after a few years.

masteen · Post by **masteen** » February 11, 2005, 12:37 pm

Zaelath wrote:I call bullshit! A freak is a freak, and a chick that doesn't even give head isn't going to warm up to you and start jungle fucking after a few years.

Unless she's 12...

Llaffer · Post by **Llaffer** » February 11, 2005, 4:24 pm

Of course I'd prefer someone that I care about, but it's been so long since I've seen any action that "doing anyone" is starting to sound tempting.

Animalor · Post by **Animalor** » February 11, 2005, 4:31 pm

I voted the long term relationship one. My last gf and I were together 4 months before we actually went ahead and did it. There was plenty of foolin around and petting but that was about it. I married her in 2003 and we've been together 10 years now.

Pre-marital sex is the way to go imo however. Life to short to have a lousy sex life post-marriage just because you decided to go the abstinance route before your marriage.

Talelor · Post by **Talelor** » February 11, 2005, 5:27 pm

I'm guessing every person that votes one night stand is approximately 30 years old and defidentally male...heh.

Boogahz · Post by **Boogahz** » February 11, 2005, 6:00 pm

I'm guessing you're NOT around 30 and male to think that all 30 year old males think that.

Adelrune Argenti · Post by **Adelrune Argenti** » February 11, 2005, 6:02 pm

Animalor wrote:I voted the long term relationship one. My last gf and I were together 4 months before we actually went ahead and did it. There was plenty of foolin around and petting but that was about it. I married her in 2003 and we've been together 10 years now.

Pre-marital sex is the way to go imo however. Life to short to have a lousy sex life post-marriage just because you decided to go the abstinance route before your marriage.

What year is this? I am confused. 2003?

Boogahz · Post by **Boogahz** » February 11, 2005, 6:05 pm

Could have been together for years and then married in 2003 making 10 years total together...

Fash · Post by **Fash** » February 11, 2005, 6:07 pm

10 years back = 1995... had sex 4 months after meeting... married in 2003..

it all works out... nothing incongruous...

Adelrune Argenti · Post by **Adelrune Argenti** » February 11, 2005, 7:38 pm

Ah ok. I misread then. I thought you meant 2003 this all started. I are teh confuzzeled or something.

Bubba Grizz · Post by **Bubba Grizz** » February 11, 2005, 8:19 pm

When I was younger and in the military hooking up was the best thing ever. Granted there were a lot of repeat performances or those that lasted a week or so until I told them they had to leave. I had a great time during that time in my life.

Now I am older and married and I am happy with the way my life is now. The thrill of exploring a new body isn't there anymore but fact you are with someone who knows what you like and you know what she likes makes up for that.

(So after that 5 minutes is over it is down to my computer to be with the one who knows me best, my hand.

)

Zamtuk · Post by **Zamtuk** » February 12, 2005, 1:23 am

There should be a 'both' category. In between relationships I do enjoy hooking up. After a long ass relationship, casual sex is a very welcome change until you find someone you care about.

Nilaman · Post by **Nilaman** » February 12, 2005, 1:46 am

who is this doofy guy anyway?

Rivera Bladestrike · February 12, 2005, 6:46 am

He was in the corps for a bit. Along with a few assorted guilds. From a couple years back, quit during Luclin.

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Which sex do you prefer? relationship or hooking up

Relationship or Hooking up?

Which sex do you prefer? relationship or hooking up