Would you want to know..

Rojer · Post by **Rojer** » June 10, 2003, 2:52 pm

I figure with the current set of conversations going on.. I would add a question for yall. Cause ok I have this mini story.

I met this girl on an MMORPG who had a husband who like put her through college, and did every thing for his wife, helped her the best way he knew possible, and was the best possible husband he could be. Within an hour of knowing his wife, she wanted to come meet me. This girl is no slut tho, according to both of them she has never been with any one else but him, even before they were together. So I asked him, if your wife was cheating on you, would you rather know? Or would it be too much for you, and you would rather never know? He told me that he would rather not know, and just live his happy life with her.

So.. thus the question.. =)

Fairweather Pure · Post by **Fairweather Pure** » June 10, 2003, 2:57 pm

Would you take the red pill or the blue pill? Same difference, different scenerio. You can never grow or excel as a person if you're rooted in ignorance.

Relationships are just one of many things that will challenge a person throughout his/her life.

Akaran_D · Post by **Akaran_D** » June 10, 2003, 3:29 pm

I'd want to know. If she's having an affair, then frankly, somthing is so badly wrong in my relationship that it needs to be addressed in either one way or another.

Acies · Post by **Acies** » June 10, 2003, 3:30 pm

Ignorance is perhaps the only true evil left.

I would know.

Winnow · Post by **Winnow** » June 10, 2003, 3:36 pm

You pick my answer:

A) I'd want to know. Truth and Trust are what matter most to me in a relationship. Nothing's black and white in relationships these days but if you're open and honest, both people involved in the relationship can come to a better decision on what's best for the future. Ignorance is not bliss in this case.

or

B) I'd like to know in case she was cheating with another women and there was a possiblility of a threesome.

masteen · Post by **masteen** » June 10, 2003, 3:39 pm

I'd wanna know so I could kick the daft trollop to the curb!

Acies · Post by **Acies** » June 10, 2003, 3:39 pm

Winnow wrote:You pick my answer:

A) I'd want to know. Truth and Trust are what matter most to me in a relationship. Nothing's black and white in relationships these days but if you're open and honest, both people involved in the relationship can come to a better decision on what's best for the future. Ignorance is not bliss in this case.

or

B) I'd like to know in case she was cheating with another women and there was a possiblility of a threesome.

B

Adelrune Argenti · Post by **Adelrune Argenti** » June 10, 2003, 3:47 pm

Rojer wrote:
I met this girl on an MMORPG who had a husband who like put her through college, and did every thing for his wife, helped her the best way he knew possible, and was the best possible husband he could be. Within an hour of knowing his wife, she wanted to come meet me. This girl is no slut tho, according to both of them she has never been with any one else but him, even before they were together.

If after an hour of knowing you online, she wanted to come meet you, there is either something seriously wrong with her relationship and/or she isnt telling you the whole truth. Sounds like some serious self worth issues as well as someone I would steer so far clear of it isnt even funny.

rhyae · Post by **rhyae** » June 10, 2003, 4:01 pm

I would want to know. Besides being angry I'd be worried which cooties he was bringing home.
I don't want to end up with AIDS just cos he couldnt keep it in his pants.

miir · Post by **miir** » June 10, 2003, 4:07 pm

If after an hour of knowing you online, she wanted to come meet you, there is either something seriously wrong with her relationship and/or she isnt telling you the whole truth. Sounds like some serious self worth issues as well as someone I would steer so far clear of it isnt even funny.

Take a look at who posted the poll?
That should explain a few things.

Lor · Post by **Lor** » June 10, 2003, 4:10 pm

I'd want to know, so I could follow them and video it.... that way the Wench would'nt get half my shit.

Lexien · Post by **Lexien** » June 10, 2003, 4:10 pm

Ignorance is bliss like Cypher said..

But i would want to know.

Take a look at who posted the poll?
That should explain a few things.

What about the person who posted the poll?

Animalor · Post by **Animalor** » June 10, 2003, 5:46 pm

I would like to know but I would want her not to know that I know. That way I can fuck on the side too and if she gets pissed I can throw it all back in her face. =P

Ennia · Post by **Ennia** » June 10, 2003, 5:55 pm

yes, I don't know what I'd do with that information yet

Sendarie · Post by **Sendarie** » June 11, 2003, 4:10 am

Already rolled through this one.

Soon as I found out for sure got me a lawyer and took care of it.
--Divorce is teh win

And for damn sure knowing about it is better than not knowing.

Valkeria · Post by **Valkeria** » June 11, 2003, 5:44 am

i would want to know. Already been married and cheated on soon as I found out I put nair in his shampoo bottle (yes he ended bald with a bad rash down there too:P) and kicked his ass to the curb. Would rather know then to catch something or be blind and dumb and get hurt anyways.

Rojer · Post by **Rojer** » June 11, 2003, 10:53 am

Take a look at who posted the poll?
That should explain a few things.

Where did that come from miir?

Knibble · Post by **Knibble** » June 12, 2003, 10:15 am

Yes I would wanna know so I could cut off his man parts and slap him around a bit then find her and torture her somehow.

Kilmoll the Sexy · Post by **Kilmoll the Sexy** » June 12, 2003, 12:08 pm

You have already made your choice. All that is left is for you to understand it.

Krimson Klaw · Post by **Krimson Klaw** » June 12, 2003, 12:23 pm

Not to mention the fact that a cheating significant other is raising your chances of catching an STD from them. You would not want to know that your husband/wife is out playing the field and could possibly bring you home a disease that there is no cure for? There is only one logical answer to that, and no, using condoms while you cheat is not a means to justify an end.

TO the people that say they would not want to know, by me bringing up the STD question, would you STILL not want to know? I mean, really?

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